– Redefining my relationship with food –


I love food. And I am very guilty of loving all the ‘junk food’ the most. Burgers, fries, cola, chocolate, chips, beer, pizza, coffee, etc. Actually, I have really hard time to have a healthy relationship with food in general. I sometimes even have struggles to have control over the things that I am eating. So I have noticed some really bad eating habbits that I have:

  • I eat my food like someone will steal it from me. Fast, half chewed. Here in Denmark/Germany I am usually done when people are not even half way into their food .
  • I will always take something that is for free to eat, it does not matter if I really want it or not or if I am even hungry.
  • A buffet is an unending story. I need to try everything that looks good. And I will leave the restaurant with twice the size of a belly that I came in with. I actually thing I have this attitude towards buffets as Joey character in one of the Friends episodes have expressed: ‘This is where I win all my money back’  .
  • If I paid money for food, I have to eat it all. Does not matter how big the meal is.
  • Sugar is the frenemy. I go through a chocolate bar in a blink. However, people around me have noticed that I eat chocolate like a fast snack – putting the pieces in my mouth chewing, swallowing, not even enjoying it a little bit. So, I tried to not eat so much sugar anymore and I started feeling like a person with an addiction. I was craving  sugar as crazy – cranky, angry, always searching the cupboards for something sweet. This is actually caused by the hormone insulin that fights the overdose of sugar in the blood. It usually fights it too good and the blood sugar drops lower then normal, therefore you end up wanting more sugar again to normalize the sugar levels. It’s a vicious cycle!

How to gain control over your own eating habits?

So now I am trying my best to redefine and rebuild my relationship with food. Here are some ways I have decided to improve my eating habits.

  1. Admitting to having unhealthy habits of eating. I think for most of my life I was not aware that there is something wrong with the way I eat. Only when you are aware and acceptant, you can actively change something. Human habits are proven to be changeable. That means we all can do it. So do I.
  2. Chewing longer. Enjoying the taste, revealing tastes I have not even felt before. This also contributes to eating until you feel the fullness in your stomach, which is said to take around 20 mins. This way you can avoid over eating.
  3. Eating sweets only one or two days per week. Going out of this sugar craving cycle is probably the hardest thing I have ever done in my life. I am still weak when it comes to sugar – I catch myself thinking about sweets in really random situations. The only answer is ‘powering through’! It gets easier to say no to sweets after a few weeks. I am still on track for the most part and I give bonus points for this one too, because I already can see the difference not only in how I feel but also on my body.
  4. Asking myself two questions when I have an opportunity for cheap or free food: ‘Do I really want it? Do I need it in my body?’. To be honest, probably 95% of the time the answer is’No’.
  5. Incorporating some healthier options of food in you fridge and pantry. As I have noted in my ‘Goals for 2016’ post I am trying to incorporate some new ingredients to my cooking. Find some new tastes. It takes some work for me, because I am not a big fan of cooking or spending much time in the kitchen. I especially hate doing the dishes. However, I found that healthy food can be delicious too, you just have to make it delicious.
  6. Not eliminating anything I really like to eat. I find it very discouraging to tell myself I can never ever again have burgers or cola or chocolate. It really depresses me even to think about it. Therefore, I choose limiting these things to not having them every day, but once in a while. My cheat day is Friday. 
  7. Drinking lots of water. I am already pretty good at this, but now I try my best to track how much of it I am drinking. My goal is at least 2 liters per day. To be honest, I have seen major improvement in appearance of my skin all over my body it seems tighter, more even in color tone. For me to buy water from the store is too expensive, so I have just bought a Brita water filter, which works great for tap water here in Denmark. It’s delicious!
  8. Slowly incorporating some exercise.  For me it has to be slow, because I find myself always giving up fast if I go hard core right away. The most important thing is to move, not to gain muscle or loose weight. Humans were meant to move around, so that’s what we should do.

I am advancing slowly but steady  with the food, not so much with the exercise.  But I will improve in time. I am still in progress of controlling myself in all of these steps actually. I still have to think of how much I should chew the bite I have in my mouth, I am still struggling to having sweets only on Friday (especially saying no to the sweets that are right in front of me). I have built the habits that I have throughout 24 years of my life, so now it will take some time to change them. I am ready! Are you?

Comment on your experiences with food, your habits and where you think they came from. Share your story and struggle as well as your advice on how we all can improve our eating practices.

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  1. Leta | 11th Mar 16

    Just the best of luck with changing your eating habits! It can be hard, but it is achievable 🙂 I actually started minimizing sugar intake few years ago and I couldn’t be happier I did it. When once I drank tea with two teaspoons and barfed at the taste of tea with only one spoon of sugar, now I drink tea with no sugar and it tastes amazing! Also, eating slowly is the main key!! It’s so important to chew slowly and to actually enjoy the food rather than eating it all at once. My father eats very fast and it annoys me so much! It’s like his mission is to eat it all in two minutes. Good that you noticed this habit and decided to change it, hopefully, my father will do the same soon 🙂

    -Leta | The Nerdy Me

    • Egle R. | 11th Mar 16

      Thanks for the much needed support! Getting rid of this habit of eating sugar everyday has completely changed the taste of sugar for me. Now everything sweet seems sweeter then ever. It’s kind of shocking that all this time I didn’t even feel how sweet stuff actually is because I was kind of used to its taste. Hope your dad will at least try to change his habit of eating fast. I think its even more important with the age, when you start to be prone to sicknesses. You should encourage him. 🙂

  2. Diana Maria | 14th Mar 16

    Oh my gosh, I can relate to so many of these! Sometimes I’m just too excited to eat so I eat it so quickly I barely get to enjoy it! I also have the habit of wanting to take my food up to my room and watch tv while I eat it.. it’s like this ritual I have and a guilty pleasure that I know isn’t healthy for me! Eating slow, chewing for longer and learning to actually enjoy the food without just scarfing it down are on my list of changes for this year. Good luck with changing your food habits too!


    • Egle R. | 14th Mar 16

      Oh, it’s actually very good to hear that some people also have these problems (Not that I am happy about it). Because there was some time that I was thinking that I might have some kind of eating disorder or something like that. However, I think it is just life that makes you sometimes rush or not think too much about such common thing as eating and then you obtain these not so healthy eating habits. I eat while watching some TV series too… I have read that this makes your brain programmed like that and then when you are watching anything you tend to feel hungry even when you are actually not. So basically we both should try not do that anymore. I am sure we will both improve soon. We can update each other on out progress for support!
      Thanks so much for your comment, Diana Maria!

      xx Egle | Daze of Mine

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